As the summer draws to a close, our family is preparing to dive into a new chapter: sending our kids back to public school after four years of homeschooling.
This decision wasnʼt made lightly, and itʼs been a journey filled with excitement, hope, and a fair share of nerves.
The Return to School
Our oldest son, who attended school through 4th grade before we started homeschooling, is excited to return. For him, the appeal lies in the added accountability of having a teacher and the interaction with fellow students. Heʼs eager to reconnect with the classroom environment and leverage these elements to help him succeed.
For our youngest, entering 2nd grade this fall, itʼs a different story. This is his first time attending school, and understandably, heʼs feeling a mix of emotions. His biggest concerns are not knowing anyone and the fear of getting grades. These are common worries for any child starting school, but they carry a bit more weight when itʼs your first time stepping into a classroom.
Our Concerns for Paxton
The biggest struggle for my wife and me is sending our middle son, Paxton, to school. Paxton has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Heʼs high functioning and verbal, but he faces unique challenges, including pathological demand avoidance and difficulties with social skills.
One of our greatest concerns is his history of elopement—wandering off in certain situations, even from familiar places like church. So, as you can imagine, the thought of sending him to school is a source of significant anxiety for us.
However, weʼre also deeply committed to supporting Paxton in his decision to return to school. We believe that by granting him this autonomy, weʼre giving him a chance to grow, strengthen his capabilities, and ultimately thrive in his later years. Itʼs a leap of faith, but one weʼre taking with cautious optimism.
Finding Grounding Amid Change
In moments like these, I find it helpful to lean on affirmations that keep me grounded and focused.
Here are a few that Iʼve been reflecting on:
- I am fearless.
- I am wise.
- I am powerful.
- I am love.
These affirmations remind me of the strength and resilience within all of us, qualities that are especially important during times of transition.
Tips for Managing Back-to-School Stress
As we all navigate this back-to-school season, whether as parents, students, or teachers, itʼs important to take steps to manage the stress that can come with it. Here are a few tips that might help:
1. Create a Routine: Establishing a consistent daily routine can help everyone feel more secure and less anxious. Routines provide a sense of stability and predictability, which is crucial during times of change.
2. Mindfulness Practices: Take a few moments each day for deep breathing or meditation. These practices can be particularly beneficial for kids as they adjust to new schedules and environments.
3. Open Communication: Encourage open dialogues about feelings and expectations for the new year. This helps in addressing any fears or concerns early on, creating a supportive environment for everyone involved.
A New Beginning
This morning, before sending the kids off to their first day of school, we gathered around and prayed together as a family. It was a moment of connection and reassurance, a reminder that weʼre all in this together. Now, Iʼm eagerly awaiting the opportunity to hear about their first day and how theyʼre adjusting.
Starting a new school year is always a time of growth and learning, not just for the kids, but for us as parents as well. Itʼs a chance to embrace new challenges, celebrate small victories, and support one another through it all.
As we embark on this new chapter, Iʼm reminded of the importance of community and shared experiences. Whether youʼre a parent, a student, or simply someone feeling the seasonal shift, I invite you to join me in embracing this fresh start with courage and positivity.
Letʼs make this school year one of growth, learning, and joy for everyone.
Jason Smith Hypnosis 
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